When You Suspect Abuse: What Every Adult Should Do Next
Recognizing the signs of child abuse is the first step — but knowing what to do next can be even more challenging. Many people hesitate to act, afraid of making a mistake or being wrong. Yet silence allows abuse to continue. Every adult has the power to protect a child simply by taking action.
Why Taking Action Matters
Child abuse rarely stops on its own. Without intervention, the abuse often escalates in severity and impact. Reporting suspected abuse doesn’t mean you’re accusing someone — it means you’re giving professionals the opportunity to assess the situation and help.
When you speak up, you’re not alone. Every report is reviewed by trained specialists who know how to evaluate and respond appropriately. You don’t need proof — just concern and compassion.
When a Child Confides in You
If a child opens up about abuse, that moment is critical. Your reaction can influence whether they ever tell anyone again.
Do:
Stay calm and listen without judgment
Believe them and thank them for trusting you
Reassure them that what happened is not their fault
Explain that you may need to tell someone who can help
Don’t:
Ask leading or detailed questions — let professionals handle that
Promise secrecy — it’s important to ensure the child’s safety
Show shock, anger, or disbelief — this can increase their fear
How to Report and Document Concerns
If you suspect abuse, take careful note of what you’ve seen or heard. Write down dates, behaviors, visible injuries, or statements made by the child. Documentation helps authorities assess patterns.
In Switzerland, you can contact:
Service de Protection de l’Enfance in your canton
Police emergency (117) if a child is in immediate danger
Or local child protection hotlines for advice and next steps
You can report anonymously if you prefer. Even if your suspicion turns out to be unfounded, reporting is always better than remaining silent.
Supporting the Child After Reporting
Your support doesn’t end with the report. Continue to be a stable, caring presence. Maintain normal routines, offer reassurance, and respect the child’s privacy. Avoid asking for details — the goal is to make them feel safe, not interrogated.
Moving Forward
Taking action against abuse isn’t about accusation — it’s about protection. Trust your instincts. Children depend on the adults around them to keep them safe, and your courage could change — or even save — a child’s life.
